I am sitting here at my desk in tears. Fighter and Survivor, one of the bloggers who helped me greatly when I first started here, wrote a poignant post about revelations by her husband. For two years and eight months, she tried to get the whole truth out of him. It seems he has finally let it all out. But in her post about it, she says, “Be careful what you wish for.” She feels it was another Dday and she was crushed. AGAIN.
She is a sweet and sensitive soul whom I have grown to love, even though we’ve never met face to face. I hurt for her. This is a pain I do not wish upon anyone.
As painful as it was, she needed to know. I felt I needed to know everything in my situation, too, even though it hurt like the dickens. I needed to face the reality of my marriage. There are some who don’t want to know. There’s nothing wrong with that. We each deal with betrayal in our own way.