Many thanks again for the interesting comments everyone has shared with Liberty. It’s been a fascinating couple of days!
Another reader, NMWF1, is struggling with sex since finding out about her husband’s EA. He had phone sex with her so in my definition that is beyond an emotional affair, but recently she found evidence to suggest that they actually did meet once, and she is in turmoil. She wants to hear everyone’s opinions and experiences on the subject of SEX AFTER AN AFFAIR. Here is her question:
Dj, a few weeks ago I wondered about how everyone copes with the issue of sex , I said that I realize that the number one issue in the pain department is the emotional part of an affair, we all know, it is what kills the soul , however coping with visions of a H in the arms of OW is pretty sickening to say the least, I want to know how anyone gets past that part. I sill don’t know the truth about whether or not the OW came here and met up with my H physically, but my mind is reeking havoc with me. So I want to know others thoughts about, how they cope with that aspect. How do they get past that? Hope all of you have a good day! I know it’s just another sore spot to talk about. But I really want others thoughts.
I am one of those hysterical bonders, so I have positive and negative things to say on the subject. I’ll comment along with everyone else.