Just yesterday, NMWF1 wrote that she wondered what her husband was thinking when he had his affair. Was he not concerned about her? Her comment is under my post on September 26, 2012. Her comment is at the end of the comment section. Here is the link if you’d like to see it:
And with God’s perfect coincidences, the same person who wrote the article that day, Rick Reynolds, has written another great piece today. Today he tackles the question of whether the cheater considered the spouse when having an affair.
It would have hurt me greatly to read this early on in my journey, so if you are still fresh into this, maybe you should skip this one. But at two years out I can handle it. It hurts and it saddens me to read it, but after all this time, I find it accurate and believable. There’s so much substance packed into one article, just like the last time.
My husband is not open to reading stuff like this, but I’m going to try to get the message across to him somehow. I don’t think he understands himself some of the hows and whys of his affair.