Rick Reynolds of AffairRecovery.com posted an exceptional article on the high price of forgiveness for infidelity. I cried as I read it. It is really spot on in describing the price we pay and how it is easy to take it cheap. It also articulated for me some things that I have been struggling with.
His article was shared by one of the bloggers I follow: screw infidelity. Here is a link to her reposting of the article. It is well worth reading.