A moonlit night

May 5 is ending for most of us already, but I just had to post this.  Tonight we see the biggest full moon of the year.  My husband and I are outside enjoying it.  Sometimes the simplest pleasures are the best…

Advertisements

4 thoughts on “A moonlit night

  1. Kris Washington says:

    I’m glad you had a nice evening with your hubby 🙂

    Kris

  2. SHAPE says:

    What you say about simple pleasures are the best is so true. One of our favorite things to do on Friday or Saturday night is just pop in a Netflix movie and relax. Since my H has to get up really, really early (2:15 am) to go to work, he goes to bed at 7 pm – so we don’t have much time together during the week – but Fridays and Saturdays are the exception.
    Sometimes I think that’s why I have such a difficult time bringing up anything that is bothering me about his affair or things that trigger me. I don’t want to ruin the weekend (because it usually at least ruins things for one evening anyway), and during the week it just doesn’t seem to work out either.
    Of course, sometimes I just spill out my insecurities anyway – but usually I don’t feel any better afterwards, and sometimes I feel worse. Not that he isn’t usually fairly understanding – I just know he doesn’t like to talk about it or anything to do with it.
    And so we go–on and on. Simple things we do together, especially if we can have some humor or are outside taking a walk, working on the yard together, do seem to work the best for us.

    • Not Over It says:

      Same here, SHAPE – it’s hard to find the time to talk. It’s going to ruin a day or night somewhere in the week…
      My biggest concern is that he has done little to figure himself out and so remains vulnerable. We need to talk about those things to build a solid, new foundation. It’s not happening. I sometimes feel like I’m standing on a house of cards.
      Hope you’re off to good week. Praying for you…

      DJ

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s